Tololy's Box

Birds of a feather flock together and to each his own. A liberated lady may find a partner in a liberated guy and  viceversa. Problem solved. As for responsibility, well , there is the need to belong and thus to contribute  and of course marraige has it’s rewards too and above all it is the universally accepted norm plus for genetic survival  although some may argue the later point but not yet in Jordan society as of now. Let the those who scoff at marriage now do that when they are in their middle ages and above with no or few companions.

Hmmm the second post has to be commented, it became a common issue lately, youth abstention of marriage, marriage problems or even failures or marriage.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>But for what you post about it became really true but yet complicated, you hear guys talk about girls’ liberation but what about their! Shall the one forget about his/her future partner past and try to live the moment or keep searching for the one?! You hear girls talk about forgetting about marriage or waiting for the perfect man who has every thing but do they really don’t care! Will be there ever a perfect man for them?!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">I think both guys and girls are the victim here, victims of our tough life and society difficulties.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt">It’s an endless loop, better keep it for fate.</p>

<p>&nbsp;think both guys and girls are the victim here, victims of our tough life and society difficulties</p>
<p>How true, victims of a society that has two&nbsp;measures, one for men and one for women,&nbsp; a girl who has relationships is loose character while a guy spreading his seeds around is naughty( with a wink). Victims of their own making too, a guy will play the field but will only marry a pure as snow girl and a girl who does not see beyond moneybags and comfort zone. We are all victims of hypocrisy.This applies to all societies East and West but to a varying degrees.Fairness can not be overemphasized. Hardships also lead to marital problems, for those who have access to satellite , a program called " till debt do us part" daily on an American tv station tells us this is a universal problem common to all cultures.</p>