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Cloning

In Salon on March 6, 2009 at 8:14 pm

I won’t allow myself to be cloned because that would be in violation of nature’s copyrights. Also, I’m both unworthy of the privilege and wary of its results. What if my clone was a cheap imitation of me; someone with no identity crisis? That would shatter me into a million trillion, pieces. And the clone would survive!

Would you like to be cloned? Make a compelling case.

Suicide

In Salon on February 23, 2009 at 2:00 pm

“There is but one truly serious philosophical problem and that is suicide,” said Camus. Each day I subscribe more willingly to this point of view. That’s not a severe task, as the idea is far from radical. Indeed, it seems to me perfectly logical.

Is suicide an act of philosophical introspection? A stretching of the boundaries of self-awareness perhaps? What do you think?*

*Please avoid cliches, there is so little time in life as it is, no need to waste it on stuff that everyone repeats.

Misfit

In Salon on August 19, 2008 at 9:53 am

How do you know where you “fit” in the society of your peers, elders, and The Man, where everyone seems to know exactly where they’re headed, exactly what they want, and they’re out there seemingly making it all happen?

I’ve been feeling awkwardly out of place lately in almost everything I do. Am I the only person out there with a defective compass? Your answers might provide a thread of guidance.

When A Blogger Dies

In Salon on May 19, 2008 at 2:01 pm

Heaven’s Steps blogger Hadeel has passed away. I never read her blog, never knew what she stood for, and never heard of her before today. Upon her death, Bloggers Observatory announced the news and eulogized her. This made me go check out her blog, read what she wrote, and get to know this now-deceased blogger whose last post was just last month. She died very suddenly. I’m guessing she was young too.

Maybe because this is a blogger, female, Arab, and young that I feel sorry that she has passed away. Maybe it’s because she represents parts of me that the news is so shocking even though I never read what she wrote before today. But all of this has brought this question to my mind: What do you think should happen to the blog when the blogger passes away? How will the readers know their daily thought supplier has died? Any ideas?

Solution Violence

In Salon on February 26, 2008 at 12:51 pm

For the past two days I have been reflecting on an aspect of my character which I have never taken seriously before. There have been some incidents in my life during the past three years, like being stalked online or having my computer sabotaged, that have angered me to such a degree that I considered punishing the people behind them using physical force.

I don’t believe in violence as a solution to any problem. For the most part, I don’t believe much can be done to solve 99% of the problems I face. When I do think of a solution, it is often communication. This is why I am always surprised when I think of a solution to a problem along the lines of “I will send a group of guys to break this person’s face.”

What surprises me the most is that I think of myself as an intelligent person who does not adhere to the “tribal violence” mentality that I see prevalent in my society. If so, I ask myself, why do I even consider beating a person up as a means to teach them a lesson or perhaps get them off my case? For example, if my online stalker is put in the hospital after having his jaw broken at my command, would that really keep him from stalking me? I know it would make me feel better. Is that wrong?

I guess any such action would solve the problem to a degree, but not entirely. I have never resorted to violence to the extent I mentioned above, but I have considered it seriously as a solution to a number of problems. Does that make me a violent person or simply a person at loss for a solution?

What do you think?

Medical Doomsday

In Jordan, Salon on February 7, 2008 at 10:46 am

An important milestone in Jordan’s medical history occurred yesterday. The father of a kid called Mutasem won a malpractice suit which he filed in 1999, after his son was put under the knife for hernia repair in a public hospital and emerged with a damaged-dead penis. The amount of the compensation was the biggest in Jordan’s medical history: 281,000 JD. The name of the doctor who operated on the kid was undisclosed.

I say good for Jordan. We can’t always boast about our medical expertise and about the quality of services we provide to Jordanians and Arabs alike, although most of this talk is valid only for private or military hospitals. We have to acknowledge our mistakes and when we do that, we will have credibility and we will be responsible for improving this important sector.

When my late aunt was rushed to a public hospital in Zarqa, she was still alive. Her good neighbor who was with her told me that she was still alive but the medics/nurses at the hospital were so slow in attending to her, and she eventually passed away. Thinking that she could have still been with us today had they reacted quicker is painful, to say the least.

An interesting bit in the article I linked to says that in Jordan we do NOT have a clear “medical responsibility” law, which means that the errors made since the dawn of medical practice in Jordan have gone mostly unaccounted for, the patients or their families have not been compensated, and no legal action was taken against the doctors or nurses.

وأوضح الحديدي أن قانون المسؤولية الطبية موجود على السطح ويحتاج للتوافق بين نقابة الأطباء ووزارة الصحة والمستشفيات الخاصة والجهات التي تمثل المريض ومنظمات المجتمع المدني لوضع قانون يضمن المساءلة الطبية للطبيب وضمان حقوق المريض بصورة عادلة وغير جائرة لأي طرف منهم.
وبين الحديدي أن غياب هذا القانون وعدم البت فيه منذ عام 2003 سيخلق فوضى في الاتجاهين أي اتجاه تزايد الأخطاء الطبية من جهة وتغول التعويضات في حال عدم إيجاد سقف وحد لها من جهة ثانيةن لتكون في حدود المنطق والمعقول وهذا سيحدث في حال غياب التشريع الواضح للأخطاء الطبية

Another interesting bit in the article is where it says that it is upon the patient to prove a medical error existed in their treatment. Very well, but in the case I cited above, it took the man NINE years to prove that a hernia surgery left his son basically incompetent. How is it possible that a case would take that long when the damage is so severe and so obvious? Also, there were many many cases where doctors left towels or scissors inside patients’ guts. How would the patient know unless they get sick and get opened up again?

Additionally, most patients who resort to public hospitals probably cannot afford to hire lawyers or to get legal assistance to prove that there have been medical complications beyond the scope of their treatment. I suppose that when they feel that they have been treated unjustly, some of them, or their families, resort to violence and beat up the doctors or nurses. Then we make a big fuss about it.

Atheist Marriages in Jordan

In Jordan, Salon on February 2, 2008 at 11:37 am

How do atheists get married in Jordan?

I ask because my information on the subject is minimal. Supposing two atheist people want to get married, how do they go about doing it in a country where your birth religion is inscribed in every document, identification material, and any other formal piece of paper you may acquire during your life?

Obviously, Jordanian law does not allow for the choice “Religion: none,” so if that is the case, does it stretch to allow for a form of legal binding between two people who have no religion?

Human Pet

In Salon on January 29, 2008 at 9:15 am

Here’s a bit of interesting news:

LONDON (Reuters) – A British bus company has apologized to a girl who is led around on a leash by her boyfriend and describes herself as a human pet after one of its drivers threw her off a bus.

Tasha Maltby, 19, told British newspapers she was the “pet” of her 25-year-old fiance Dani Graves.

Pictures showed her dressed in black Gothic-style clothing with silver buckles on a silver chain — which the driver of a bus from the firm Arriva took exception to.

She told the Daily Mail newspaper Wednesday she was thrown off and told: “We don’t let freaks and dogs like you on.”

Now that in certain parts of the world there are laws protecting the rights of LGTB communities, and more are struggling to be added to the list (think zoophiles, perhaps even people who are into BDSM), where should the law draw the line?

Who gets to decide what is acceptable and what is not? Obviously, law-making has many variables; lobbying, sentiments of people at the time, etc. What was once taboo is now legal because of this, and viceversa. Perhaps by this logic we can say that right and wrong are also variables. They change.

So where do you think the law should draw the line? Should people on leashes be allowed on buses? Should people-animal lovers be allowed to dine in the same restaurants as the rest of the normal “us”? Gay people are already allowed most of the freedoms we enjoy, so why not these other communities?

What do you think?

Jordan: Dirty Water and Bottled Water

In Salon on January 15, 2008 at 4:20 pm

In the past few years, Jordanians have increasingly resorted to bottled water for their drinking needs. After several scandals involving dirty drinking water causing numerous cases of posisoning/hospitalization, who can blame them? Also, and perhaps on a more elevated level, we have the renowned Jordanian love for conspicuous consumption which, trust me, makes many people carry bottles of water just to show off. I don’t get it either.

On this subject, I was just reading an article detailing the side-effects for the increasing dependability on bottled water. These range from environmental hazards, to consumerism, to ethics. Here they are in a nutshell:

1- First, the manufacturing of plastic bottles, which are often made from nonrecycled virgin material, requires vast quantities of petroleum, and only 12 percent of this material is recovered for recycling.

2- Next, the distribution of bottled water, often by container ship from the other side of the planet (Fiji, Evian, San Pellegrino), is fuel intensive and results in greenhouse gas and sulfur dioxide emissions.

3- When you add the cost of packaging and marketing to transportation, not to mention the water makers’ huge profits, you are paying two to five times more for a bottle of water than you do for the equivalent amount of gasoline.

4- Americans collectively spend five times more on bottled water each year than it would cost to eradicate the 1.8 million deaths of children due to waterborne illness each year.

If you want to read thess reasons in detail, click here to go to Pablo Päster’s article in Salon about bottled water.

Now I want to know what you think about this. Do you think people should depend on tap water and abandon bottled water completely to save the environment and poor thirsty people in Africa? What say you?

Atheists, Secularists, Liberals, Darwinists

In Salon on August 27, 2007 at 2:02 pm

420

I’ll share my mind but first, what do you think?

نظام مخالفات السير الأردني الجديد

In Salon, عربي on June 16, 2007 at 9:04 am

يعتمد نظام مخالفات السير الأردني الجديد على تطبيقات تكنولوجية تسهل من عمل الشرطة و من الرقابة على المواطنين فهو مبني على استخدام الكاميرات المثبتة على الطرقات و الكاميرات المثبتة في السيارات التابعة لأمانة عمان الكبرى و على الأشخاص المدنيين. بالتالي, من الطبيعي أن تتم مخالفتك عزيزي القارئ دون أن تدري و ليست هنا المشكلة. المشكلة تكمن في أنك لن تعرف أنه قد تم مخالفتك إلا عندما تذهب لترخيص سيارتك و عندما يحين ذلك الوقت تكون المخالفة قد تضاعفت قيمتها لتأخرك في سدادها!

أنا على سبيل المثال اكتشفت أنه قد تمت مخالفتي في شهر شباط الماضي و لكنني اكتشفت ذلك في شهر نيسان عبر موقع أمانة عمان الكبرى و أنا أتفقد الموقع دائماً و من المفروض أن المخالفات تدرج بعد ثلاثة أيام من تحريرها و لكن في هذه الحالة تأخرت مخالفتي في الظهور ثلاثة أشهر. السؤال هو كيف أتأكد من أنني بالفعل قمت بمخالفة قواعد السير في ذلك التاريخ و أنا لا أذكر أين كنت في ذلك اليوم أصلاً و ذلك بالنظر لتأخر إدراج المخالفة؟ مع الأخذ بعين الاعتبار درجة ثقتي بحرفية و دقة الأنظمة عندنا …

إذا كنت أنا أستطيع الوصول لموقع أمانة عمان و تفقد المخالفات, فإن معظم الأردنيين لا يستطيعون ذلك و هذا يحول نظام مخافات السير إلى نظام غير عادل و غير فعال إلا في جبي النقود لرفد الميزانية. علماً بأنك إن لم تسدد قيمة المخالفة فإنها ستتضاعف و هذا بالضبط ما حصل مع مخالفتي و أنا أتحمل مسؤولية ذلك إلا أنني لا أستطيع التغاضي عن تأخر موقع أمانة عمان الكبرى بإدراج المخالفة في الأساس! برأيي يجب على القائمين على هذا النظام توفير سبل معقولة للمواطنين كي يعرفوا قيم و تواريخ و ماهية مخالفاتهم قبل أن تتم مضاعفتها بل يجب أن يتم إعلام المواطن بذلك دون أن يضطر إلى المعاناة في سبيل التوصل إلى المعلومة, طبعاً إلا إذا كان الهدف من النظام أن لا يعرف المواطن عن المخالفات حتى تتم مضاعفتها!

ما رأيك بنظام مخالفات السير الأردني الجديد؟

Is Smoking Haram?

In Salon on May 5, 2007 at 9:07 pm

There has always been so much debate going on about smoking and its “status” as Haram (religiously forbidden) or Halal (religiously allowed). We know now that the limited evolution of our laws has prohibited smoking in public places and in some corporate environments (minus the CEO’s office), but do we really know what religion thinks of smoking?

I have seen, as I am sure you have, many religious people smoke. I have also seen many non-religious people shun smoking  rather too religiously (i.e they hate its guts). We know we should not judge a religion by its believers, but what is right and what is wrong when a religious verdict is pronounced on a habit, a cancer, an artistic taste, and an annoyance like smoking?

I am very interested in your answers to this question: do you think smoking is Haram?

The God Gene

In Salon on February 14, 2007 at 1:06 pm

Do you believe that people seek to believe in a Higher Power (or powers) because this power really exists, or is it because people need to believe so they simply follow that instinctive need for The Divine that’s embedded in them?

For as long as I can remember, I have been fascinated with the issue of religion and spirituality, and have been very fond of science as well. Mix those elements together, do a little research on each, engage in discussions with people of different faiths and those without, and you will get soul-searching chaos Tololy-style.

I first heard about the theory behind the God gene from my sister, and that was years ago. Today, I finally decided to blog about it because I want to communicate it to people who may not have heard about it. Basically, as the question in the first passage of this post asks, the quest for a Deity (or more) just might have something to do with genetic predisposition. Read this article from TIME, dating back to October 2004, and titled Is God in Our Genes? , or you could read the following excerpts:

Which came first, God or the need for God? In other words, did humans create religion from cues sent from above, or did evolution instill in us a sense of the divine so that we would gather into the communities essential to keeping the species going?

. . .

Chief of gene structure at the National Cancer Institute, [Dean] Hamer not only claims that human spirituality is an adaptive trait, but he also says he has located one of the genes responsible, a gene that just happens to also code for production of the neurotransmitters that regulate our moods. Our most profound feelings of spirituality, according to a literal reading of Hamer’s work, may be due to little more than an occasional shot of intoxicating brain chemicals governed by our DNA. “I’m a believer that every thought we think and every feeling we feel is the result of activity in the brain,” Hamer says.

. . .

Hamer also stresses that while he may have located a genetic root for spirituality, that is not the same as a genetic root for religion.

Spirituality is a feeling or a state of mind; religion is the way that state gets codified into law. Our genes don’t get directly involved in writing legislation. As Hamer puts it, perhaps understating a bit the emotional connection many have to their religions, “Spirituality is intensely personal; religion is institutional.”

. . .

What do you think?

Salon: Teacher Superiority

In Salon on November 16, 2006 at 11:16 am

Do you think that students must never appear to be smarter than their teacher, even if they are? Convince us.

Curious

In Salon on September 24, 2006 at 8:53 pm

It is most curious that the posts that harvest the most comments (and supposedly generate most reactions and/or debates) are either political or personal.

Should I take it that people enjoy politics and gossip more than literature? (I have an uneasy feeling about the answer to this question) What do you think?

Salon: Define democracy

In Salon on June 21, 2006 at 8:27 am

What is democracy and does it extend beyond theory? What do you think?

Salon: Cyberpals

In Salon on May 23, 2006 at 8:42 am

In your opinion, what are the advantages/disadvantages of cyber friendships? What do you think of this new “trend” in human relationships? Is it real? Good? Bad? Why?

Salon: Who’s talking about Arab Unity?

In Salon on May 9, 2006 at 11:34 am

The first salon entry was, in my estimation, delightful. It generated such important debates in the Box, over at Lina’s place and even reaching Egypt.

Yes, it is an old-new argument and counter-argument and, positively, actions speak louder than words. But the truth of the situation has it that people do want to touch upon this issue.

“Part of the problem is that “Arabness” doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Every Arab has other identities (i.e., Sunni Muslim, Shiite Muslim, Christian, Libyan, Jordanian, economic class, etc). Each identity has its own agenda. IMHO, it is the clash of these identities that is the biggest of the obstacles facing Arab unity.” – Peter S.

” I think that arabs are amazing people that need a great and powerful leader to unite them and bring the best in them, Prophet Mohammed, and the great caliphs after him, Salahiddeen, and to certain extent (Jamal Abdulnasser). ” – Electro

“I am afraid an Ideological dream is no more, bad be that or good. However there is plenty of room for mutual beneficial corporation, but that dose not sleep easy with back stabbing!” – Nidal

“I for one don’t want it based on religion, muslim nor christian, I want it based on the fact that in the end we would all be better off if we worked as a unit. ” – Lulwa

“Jordan came up with that nationalistic slogan of Jordan First a few years ago. Truth is, every Arab country has had their own slogan for years and years, and we just started getting more seriously in to the game.

The west has a vested interest in keeping us seperated and now enough time has passed for us to be brainwashed into thinking that there is a huuuuge difference between a syrian and an egyptian…or even worse…a jordanian and a palestinian. we’ve been convinced from everyone and everything of these differences and these assumptions become a wedge which seperate everyone.” – Nas

” On some level, of course, there is a bond — ethnic and linguistic similarities count for something. But from my distant vantage point, “pan-Arabism” is little more than a cynical political ploy to create a false sense of community in order to direct public ire away from internal problems that the state is unable or unwilling to address.” – Vincent

“The issue of “American Influence” is more complex than we customarily think of it and it is indeed a two-way street. Yet underpinning the ability of America to have the final call in any situation is due to immense military power (Nuclear Diplomacy) and its PetroDollars. ” – Gafgafa

” The Arab context is not the best context to talk about unity in. The people that you want to unite half of them don’t even identify with being Arabs and more importantly lack the ability to identify with the rest of the group, and on the other hand even those who identify with being Arab and identify with other Arabs are still not guaranteed to fully cooperate simply because the majority of them still operate in a tribal mode that fails to see the big picture beyond the tribe.” – Hamzeh N.

Now who’s talking about Arab Unity? It’s you.

Are you afraid of going to jail?

In Salon on April 24, 2006 at 3:50 pm

I’m sorry, I just can’t stop laughing at this thought. Are you, dear readers, afraid of going to jail? Is that why only one person dared to answer the question about Arab Unity in that first Salon entry? Mmm? Or is this question a bit “off”? Rotten and boring?

Ah. Like I said before, the possibilities are endless. But this makes me laugh, just as I was starting to debate doing politics – the irony of it all!

First Salon entry: Arab Unity

In Salon on April 24, 2006 at 8:15 am

Among the messages I received last week following the “Say it as it is” post, I found one (From Peter S.) to be particularly in harmony with notions I had had previously but never got to enact. So I am devising a new section through which I hope more reader-to-reader interaction can be attained.

In this section, I only ask a question. You answer it, debate other answers, or look up some additional information. In short, it’s all about you and what you think. The possibilities are endless and I think it should be interesting to observe how conversations grow to promote better understanding.

What do you think happened to that dream we were brought up believing would come true one day : Arab Unity?